Feb 12, 2015
Hey there! If you are ready for another round of “Travels with Biondi”, here goes.
Mostly I just groom them and do tick control and do basic ground work training with them. There is a horse hobbling around with a dislocated hip who looks like he is in pain every time he steps. I’m not sure why she has decided to keep him alive. He wandered onto her property in that condition 9 months ago and “rescued” him. Hmmm…no food or regular water supply. Not sure how that is called “rescuing”. Putting him down would be the humane thing to do.

Hello again,
I am now settled into my new luxurious home here in Dominican Republic. It is quite a change from the old ranch, as you will see from the photos. There is a maid who comes everyday to clean and cook and she even makes my bed! I feel like I’m living at a fancy resort!
The house is in a gated community called Sea Horse Ranch and the homes here are over-the-top HUGE. Of course all owned by foreigners. This is a 6 bedroom light and airy place designed by the American owner who is an architect. Living with the family has been interesting. The 8 year old boy and 19 year old daughter constantly challenge the German mom who is most often at her wits end and constantly complaining about her “difficult” busy life. Hmmm…money DOES NOT buy happiness…so true! I spend every afternoon in town with friends in order to give and get space.
My work here consists of training their three year old horse named Spirit, each weekday morning at the beautiful equestrian center. The horses here are well fed, groomed daily, pastured or kept in stalls and loved by the owners.
There is a lovely pool at the house where I do my morning swim and I help out with preparing dinners for us all in the evening. I’m considered more of a guest of the family, not “help”. They invited me to attend a potluck dinner at a friend’s house last night where I met many people who have moved here or are visiting from other parts of the world, Serbia, Canada, St. Croix, US. One was a young man from Gaspe Penninsula, Canada who is studying circus arts instruction! An interesting crowd, two older women from NYC who are pediatricians, the guy from Serbia has a master’s degree in agriculture whose tomatoes we have been enjoying daily!
Last week I had a personal tour with a young Dominican friend, Carlos, who teaches windsurfing at the beach and who has been helping me with my Spanish. He brought me to the “National park” area to see the water filled caves. Crystal clear turquoise water! Next he brought me to his house for dinner which was an interesting experience. I got to see the typical poor neighborhood scene here, houses packed in tight, tin roofs, kids playing in the streets, chickens and dogs, no running water, just a pee bucket for a toilet.
The house was decorated with paintings and fake flowers and glass fruit in a bowl on the table, rooms separated by curtains. We ate by candle light, out of necessity, as the electricity is only on at certain times of the day, like at the other ranch. I offered the father, who cooked our meal, a mini flashlight as a gift, since it seemed it could be a useful thing to have around the house.
I had a simple conversation in Spanish with the 10 year old sister and encouraged her to speak to me with what English she knew. She was shy but proud that she could show me what she had learned in school! I love the exchange that happens when trying to communicate in their language and they in mine. Lots of smiles, laughter and blushing. It’s fun and amusing! It’s what “makes” it for me when traveling. The give and take of it all, the sharing of culture and knowledge, seeing how they live, so different from our US existence.
I shared pictures with them on my computer, pictures of my daughter and family, images from back home, our beaches, frozen Cape Cod Bay, me as a young girl and teenager. They were intrigued by it all.
I got home that night to find out I had been accidentally locked out of the house. Funny! I had to curl up on one of the outdoor couches under the palm frond hut and fell asleep to the sound of waves and chirping insects, (and buzzing mosquitos!) Covered only by a thin sheet I borrowed from another couch, it was a long night! But at least I was warm and dry. My luxurious bedroom….so close yet inaccessible. I cracked up at the juxtaposition and thought of my Dominican friends in their simple home and felt lucky to have shared time in their simple home and to have shared a meal with them. Such generous, inviting and humble people.
Till next time….
Hasta luego mi amigos!
Janet
I realize that mostly what I do here in DR, besides train this wonderful young horse, write blogs and beach it, is people watch. DR a great place for this pastime, as there’s such an amazing and colorful mix of people. The array consists of local vendors, foreign visitors from all corners of the world and local families with kids. Dominicans, Haitians, mixed race families, mixed-aged couples (anything goes here!), people of all shapes and colors, stroll up and down the beach.
Cabarete beach is an athletic person’s dream vacation spot with windsurfing, sailing and kite surfing. Even though I consider myself athletic, I don’t feel drawn to getting out there and participating for some reason. I’m typically an “ocean person” but maybe because I am in “horse mode”, I’m not feeling the draw here. As I observe I see lots of room for accidents and injuries so I’m fine staying on the beach and relaxing! A friend who I met here went home in an induced coma from a horrible sailing accident. He’s lucky to be alive. I’ll spare you the details. This could have something to do with my uninterested attitude!
Restaurants and bars line the beach and after doing a little research for a blog post for the woman I work for, I noticed that Happy Hour can be found at the beach at nearly any hour, daily, between noon and midnight, with half priced drinks and pizza or other meals. Today, being St Patty’s day, the beach was alive with Irish music entertainment from the States, with bagpipes included, and Irish step dancers….and of course lots of beer and green! I had a beer and stood by to watch and took pictures. It seems this tradition has been going on for decades here in Cabarete, hosted by the one and only Irish bar, Jose O’Shay’s!
My time here is winding down, at week 7 out of 8, and I’m starting to feel how much I’ve blended with this place, compared to my first two weeks when I was feeling overwhelmed and in culture shock with the amount of noise and chaos on the street. Somehow the constant barrage of vendors looking to make a few pesos, or “motoconcho” drivers constantly asking for my business, riding the packed local transportation….squished like sardines, has become such a part of my day that I have somehow become desensitized to it. As annoying as it is, I notice that I can still say “no gracias” with a smile or indicate it with the slightest shake of my head or expression from across the street to inquiring vendors.
The men are still as persistent with their, “te quiero” (I love you) as I walk the street from one destination to the next. Harmless really, and sort of amusing because, do they really think a woman will want to ride on their motorcycle or come into their shop if she is being hounded in this way? It’s so much a part of their culture that you can’t get upset by it. They blow kisses and flirt and try to get you to check out their shop or restaurant or buy their goods. Seems sort of backwards really, but it’s the Dominican way.
Chao for now, enjoy the pics.
Jan























